A GUY'S GUIDE TO BUILDING SOCIAL VALUE, AND INTERACTING WITH STRANGERS, GROUPS AND WOMEN.

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So...

Do you want to know what the biggest BLOCK for people who struggle socially is?

"I just don't know what to say."

This used to be my constant fear when I was in social situations. I got so fed up with being known as "the shy one", I ended up avoiding most of it not ALL situations involving people.

Here is how it went for me:

I would be in a social situation with people chatting away.

THEN...

I would sit there listening to what was going on and trying to find something to join in with.

BUT...

Nothing came to mind. I was stuck in my own headspace that I just couldn't think of anything to add to the conversation. Every attempt that I made would be short and closed off- then they would go back to their conversation.

But that is only one part of it...

That kind of behaviour happens when you are IN an interaction...but I wanted to do more than that. I didn't want to be trapped and resigned to just the people I knew by circumstance.

I wanted to CREATE interactions. I wanted to walk up to anybody in any situation. It could be with strangers, groups, hired staff, in a doctors office, at a cafe, in a bar or club, on the street...

And when I thought about this list of possible situations and scenarios I had to deal with and think up on what to say- it became overwhelming!

How could anybody have something prepared and planned for every situation?

I didn't want to approach situations with a pre-set plan. I wanted to be flexible in my conversations and interactions. Having some planned would make me feel too wooden and like a robot.

I KNEW I could not prepare for every situation. I had to develop a structure and system that applies to EVERY SOCIAL SITUATION, and this is what I created...

A GUY'S GUIDE TO BUILDING SOCIAL VALUE

Just think about this for a second...

"Conversation it not like reading a script."

Nobody knows what the other is going to say next. We simply talk and react to what happens.

But for a socially shy and anxious person it can be hard to react because they are so caught up in their own headspace. They just go blank.

Every guy at some point has had it happen where they see a gorgeous girl and they just FREEZE UP. They know that even though they could probably walk up- all they can think of to say is, "Hi"

So what happens?

He freezes up...his mind has goes blank because he is anxious...so before he gets rejected- he ejects himself.

ALL BECAUSE HE FELT "HE HAD NOTHING TO SAY".

But put him into a situation with a friend or a woman he does not feel attracted to- he could probably talk none stop.

The reason why he couldn't talk to the attractive girl, but he could probably talk to his best buddy is all because of his lack of conviction and confidence with his social skills

LEARNING THE SKILLS FOR SOCIAL SUCCESS

I'm sure you've heard what improvisation is all about. It is a skill where you make something up as you go with whatever is available to you.

1) THINKING ON YOUR FEET
2) REACTING TO THE MOMENT

When you relate improvisation as a social skill, all we have available to us are our thoughts. So we need to FREE UP OUR HEADSPACE so that we are open to a number of suggestions, rather than the one and only suggestion in our head, which is usually"I can't say that!".

We cannot rely on specific lines and routines. We need an attitude- One where you feel comfortable in facing whatever you are lunged in to.

In a book I cannot teach you how to improvise. It is a shift in your mindset where you freely jump into any situation and make it up as you go. And the more experience you have of it, then the more confident you become in believing you can react to anything.

HOWEVER...

What I can help you with is a STRUCTURE.

Do you remember the list of possible situations?

We cannot rely on specific lines and routines. We need an attitude- One where you feel comfortable in facing whatever you are lunged in to.

So instead of trying to think, "What can I say if I see a gorgeous girl at the bar?....What can I say to the work colleague who I sit with?...How do I approach this situation without looking like an idiot?"....

Instead of ALL that headspace nonsense....you simply take the approach of diving in and making it up as you go by working around the structure.

After all, there may be a number of possible situations- but interactions with people are relatively the same in terms of conversation.

And this is what I want to help you improve: your belief in KNOWING how to spontaneously start interactions, and also how to react during conversations.

Here is why you need to get these social skills handled....

Let me point something out to you...

Without people- you have nothing.
No Friends- No Social Life.
No Girlfriend- No Intimacy and Future Family.
No Networking- No Business and Contacts.
No Customers- No Sales.
No Audience- No performance.
No Teachers- No Education.

Whatever way we cut it- WE NEED PEOPLE. Everything we do involves them. They are a valuable resource to our lives.

And I know full well how difficult it can be if you are plagued with shyness, insecurity and anxiety. You just don't feel like you can CONNECT with people. There always seems to be some block that happens where your interactions are cut short.

Here are some questions you might be asking yourself....

- Why do I always get rejected or ignored?
- How come I can never think of anything to say?
- Why do people never carry on a conversation with me?
- What do I say next?
- Why can't I connect with anybody?
- Why am I always just "the friend" with girls?
- Why do people not listen to what I have to say?
- Why do I always mess up and say/do the wrong thing?

ALL OF THESE QUESTIONS ARE ANSWERED IN THIS BOOK

This book is all about Developing your Social attitude, Overcoming any mental blocks or anxieties you may have, and learning how to interact and flow in conversations.

Here is the thing...

Social skills are never shown to us. We observe and pick up these skills from those around us.

But more often than not- we pick up bad habits! And if we never learn to put them right, we drag ourselves down and feel all the above reactions to social situations.

YOU DON'T WANT TO FEEL OR ACT ANXIOUS AND STUCK. YOU WANT TO FEEL AND BE NATURAL WITH YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH OTHERS.

I think of this book as a REFERENCE GUIDE TO BEING SOCIAL.

Inside, you will discover where you are going wrong. If you ever come across the same problem again- you go back over the book to the sections you want and keep working on it.

DOES THIS HAPPEN TO YOU?

• You always find yourself stuck on how to approach somebody and get past the pressure you feel for those first few minutes.
• Somebody asks you a question, but you hesitate and feel embarassed talking about yourself.
• You feel uncomfortable putting attention on yourself, so you always listen and ask questions.
• You avoid a lot of social situations.
• You are okay with guys. But with girls, you become a stumbling wreck.

These are just a few examples of the OBSTACLES we can face socially.

THINK ABOUT YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN...

How do they usually play out for you?

If we are socially shy, our most common response is to find something SAFE and predictable to use to get her interested.

But not all of your conversation will be attraction based. At some point, you have to get your foundation of social skills handled and express WHO YOU ARE. That requires you to feel secure and confident within yourself.

Imagine the scenario...you've known your dream girl for a week and the sexy time has already happened. The seduction doesn't need to happen any more. All you need to do is stay attractive.

But if you relied on your seduction tactics, you've got nothing to fall back on now. You're going to lose her interest!

THERE IS SUCH A THING CALLED NATURAL ATTRACTION...

And you can let NATURAL ATTRACTION spark when you get all the nerves and fear out of the way, and you don't rely on tactics.

Don't get me wrong. The attraction methods out there do genuinely work to spice up your attitude. But this book encourages you to allow your naturally attractive qualities shine through. The ones which work on a continual basis, and not just for a 10 minute spike.

Don't think you have to plan for everything. Learn a structure and then use that to live and react to the moment with confidence and ease.

This book is not filled with routines and lines to use. They can get you trapped. Once you've used them- you may feel like you have nothing else unless you develop this skill.

This is about learning how to IMPROVISE within your interactions. This is about learning a structure and techniques so you can use them to think and create on your feet and in the moment.

We often hesitate with people because we are nervous about their reactions- whether it is reactions over us as a person, or what we say or do. And the anxiety can happen out of this apprehension.

But what if...whatever reaction you get...you know you could react to it spontaneously and effortlessly?

What if, you can see an opportunity, go up- say hello, and then IN THE MOMENT you come up with something else on the spot?

YOU DEVELOP CONFIDENCE FOR ANY SOCIAL SITUATION.

HERE ARE SOME CRUCIAL SKILLS YOU WILL DEVELOP

• Being more spontaneous and reacting to the moment.
• Using your own creativity to think up ideas and things to say on the spot.
• Seeing an opportunity and approaching it with confidence.
• Being more open to possibilities and suggestions.
• Learning how to be playful and laid back when interacting with others.
• Feeling free and flexible to let yourself go and express yourself fully.

ALSO A FEW THINGS THIS BOOK COVERS...

• Give you confidence in ANY social situation.
• Ensure you are not always quiet, shy and lost on what to say.
• Guide you with an outlook and ATTITUDE to not fear something new or unknown.
• Show you how to spice up your interactions and CREATE ATTRACTION with women.
• Teach you how to IMPROVISE STORIES and be a CHARISMATIC STORYTELLER.
• Explain how to develop SOCIAL PRESENCE.
• Get rid of your inner self-critic and help you be MORE EXPRESSIVE and open.
• Tell you BLOCKS during conversations, and how you can get past them.
• Make you more CREATIVE and SPONTANEOUS as you react to the moment.
• Show you how to feel secure and comfortable without always planning or preparing.
• Break down interactions step-by-step.
• ...and more.

WHAT YOU WILL GET INSIDE THIS BOOK.

The book is nearly 330 pages long and split into THREE SECTIONS.

First section- DEVELOPING YOUR SOCIAL ATTITUDE focuses on overcoming any mindset you have that results in you being shy, quiet or reserved.

If you want to OVERCOME SHYNESS and other similar traits, then this section will assist you in methods of change.

It also covers rejection and how to overcome it. I discuss the blocks that happen during an interaction, and how they are easily perceived as rejection. You won't feel rejected anymore when you understand them.

Second section- INSIDE INTERACTIONS guides you in adding improvisation as you interact with people.

There are chapters on topics such as 'Sources for conversation', 'How to start an interaction', 'Being a confident storyteller', and 'How to never run out of things to talk about'.

It hits on the main struggles throughout interactions. Things like your mind going blank, or always asking questions, or how to encourage the other person if THEY are the ones that are quiet.

Third section- BEYOND INTERACTIONS includes FRAME CONTROL, PRESENCE, ATTRACTION and GROUPS.

It elaborates on the principles to you demonstrating HIGH VALUE. You will learn how to handle difficult people while still making sure people still respect you.

And attraction is all about INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN. You need to talk to the opposite sex differently, so you can show your attractive qualities through communicating in the RIGHT WAY.

When you read through all the sections, and APPLY the techniques- you'll have a structure for interactions with ANYBODY. You gain the confidence to IMPROVISE and think on your feet. No planning. No preperation. No thinking up conversations and what to say before it even happens.

Whatever part of your interactions you are struggling with- this book has the answer for you.

SO WHAT HAPPENS NEXT?
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I know personally when you procrastinate on a decision, you pass any chance to have something new in your life. Then you kick yourself a few days later, wondering why the hell you didn't do it sooner!

As long as you apply the techniques outlined in this book- you will DRAMATICALLY improve your social value and interactions with anybody you meet.

BRENDAN CORBETT

P.S. This book covers everything you need to work on and develop your social life and skills. If you have any questions about this product, feel free to contact me by e-mail:

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Brendan Corbett